How do you know if youโre successful?
Do you know the big 5 of Africa?
It’s about the 5 important animals people like to see on a safari (the term is actually based on the 5 most difficult animals to hunt). The more, the more successful the safari was. They are the elephant, the lion, the leopard, the rhinoceros, and the African buffalo.
John Strelecky wrote a book about the big 5 of life. And I want to tell you about it because it changed how I think about my life.
The interesting thing is that knowing your big 5 and the purpose of your life will also improve your productivity. I will tell you how.
The Big 5
Do you struggle with finding your purpose in life? Itโs such an overwhelming term that will define your future. It keeps people procrastinating because they don’t want to make such a big decision.
The first thing to know:
Your purpose and values in life can and will change with you.
If you write down your goals now, it doesnโt mean they will never change again. You are growing and improving, and your purpose and values will grow with you.
Do you remember what you wanted to be when you grew up?
I liked geography in school, so I said I wanted to be a geographer. Then I googled what it actually means and changed my mind.
As you grow and explore the world, you will change your goals. Keep that in mind!
The big 5 in Africa are like a scale of the safari’s success. You can adapt this principle to your life:
What are the 5 values for your success?
Take a moment and think about it. Visualize your successful future.
How do you measure it?
Mine are:
- being inspiring: inspire people with my words and content
- freedom: I decide how, where, and with whom I spend my time
- being creative
- being productive
- having a loving family and spending time with them
Your values will differ from mine and thatโs normal. Every person is unique and has their definition of success.
Growing up, we adapt to the definition of success given by our parents, teachers, or friends. And they got it from their experiences.
As a young adult, I worked on achieving society’s goals. It didnโt make me happy. Everyone is going through this phase of:
- questioning your mindset
- questioning society
- rejecting the view of your parents
- feeling lost
- trying to figure out what you want in your life
We need this time to explore, fail, and figure it out. Itโs called the 20s.
We get pressured to choose โthe career of our livesโ after high school, but the majority donโt even know what they like to do.
During my quarter-life crisis (at 22), I felt guilty for not choosing the right studies at 18. I thought I was too old to change.
Iโm glad I decided against societyโs rules of sticking to one job forever.
Your purpose in life
Your purpose in life is not coming to you like a lightning strike.
Itโs about:
- exploring life: books, people, museums, citiesโฆ
- experiencing new things
- working to get good at something
- failing
- establishing habits
Donโt pressure yourself to find it quickly. You will find it when you least expect it, and it can change every few years.
Do you know the stories about people who, in their retirement, find a new passion in wine, studying, or something else? They had a purpose in their jobs, but after they got some free time, they found something new.
Even though the job you are currently working in isnโt something you want to do forever, it can help you get to your vision of a successful future.
This perspective change happens when you know your purpose.
At the moment, my goal is to help 8 million young women grow into the best versions of themselves.
My full-time job is helping me get there by:
- providing money to invest in myself and my online business
- improving my skills and experiences in the field of architecture, which I need to open my own office
- keeping me healthy by having health insurance, money to buy healthy food, and coaching
Instead of being in a bad mood on Sunday evenings, I use the energy for my online business. My perspective shift opens up energy and space for creativity and growth.
Improving productivity
Knowing your purpose changes your perspective. Thinking positively about your job because it helps you achieve your goal improves your productivity.
You are a one-person business working for one employer, which helps you by paying you money for your work.
With this shift, you like doing your work because you see the big picture.
By zooming out and knowing your purpose, you know what to focus on when zooming in. And you show the universe what will happen in the future, and it makes it possible.
- With the universe’s help, you can achieve everything you set your mind to.
- With primal trust, you can always find motivation and inspiration to be productive
- Knowing your purpose in life, you are free of societyโs influence
- Knowing your purpose in life, you have intrinsic motivation, that you can use whenever you want to be productive
- With your unique values and future vision, decision-making is easy
Starting my job a few weeks ago, I had my mind set on: โlong hours sitting in the office dependent on other peopleโ, but now, after reading the book and thinking about my purpose again, I think: โIโm grateful for having a steady job, which helps me to get a successful future.โ
This tremendously improves my productivity at work and at home.
โI am ultimately responsible for me. My thoughts, my actions, my beliefs, my lifeโฆ The more I understand, accept and embrace that, the more powerful I becomeโ
โ John Strelecky
Conclusion
The book โThe Big Five for Lifeโ by John Strelecky tells a story about an entrepreneur living by his purpose and big five, including in his companies.
With kindness and the knowledge of your definition of success, you donโt just transform your life for the better, but also everyone elseโs around you.
After you finish reading this, I want you to take a few minutes and think about your big 5. Write them down!
And then donโt forget them!
Iโm reminding myself daily as part of my morning routine.
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