Fear has a big impact on our life, success, and everything. We don’t do so many things because we are afraid of something like failure or embarrassment.
But how I’m seeing this is that nobody gives a shit.
You are standing in your own way and nobody knows what you’re thinking until you talk or do something.
I’m definitely not patient and I just hate it when I don’t know what other people are thinking or when I don’t know what I should do now with the new people I met. Am I talking enough or too much? Am I too pushy?
I’m always thinking too much about my actions because I don’t how people will react to it.
And then I do nothing because I’m afraid of failure and rejection.
But you’re the only one who is thinking so much about that stuff and what the others are thinking because the others are not thinking about you the whole time. And you just interpret too much in it.
So stop being afraid and just be yourself and do the things you would like to do.
If you want to message somebody because you like that person or because you would like to meet the person for studying with. Then do it. Right now.
Be yourself and do things you have in mind and want to do.
If the person says no then it’s also fine because you can learn from failures. And the worst thing that could happen is that the person says no but you’re not going to die because of it.
So who cares.
Wear the things you would like to wear. Do the things you would like to do. Nobody cares.
Only you are thinking too much about it and that’s what is getting in your way.
Only the things you do in life are important, not the thoughts in your head or in the head of somebody else.
The only thing that matters in your life is you and your life. You should be happy with your life and with yourself.
Enjoy life. Do something great in your life. Move the world. Change the things you don’t like.
Because nobody knows what’s going on in your head until you say or do it. So do it.
If you don’t do it, you will regret it someday. And you will never know what would’ve happened if you did it.
So be curious and try out new stuff. Risk it.
At the end of your life, you will only regret the stuff you didn’t do. So do everything you want to do.
And be yourself.
What things did you do even though you were afraid?
What are your experiences?
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